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I don’t know if it’s true for all of us, the saying, “true love waits..”.

But for me, it is. Love doesn’t think about the consequences but on how will they get to reach the success on having their most precious time with the person they love the most. 

In a REAL relationship, the feeling of the other person is more important. If you think that this is the time to move on for the mistakes you’ve done and the other is telling that it’s not, don’t force each other. You are both in a relationship that should take care of each other and not for telling and forcing each other to understand what is needed to, all you need to understand is the feeling of the other person and not to let anybody be hurt. And if you love someone you’ll do anything just to make him/her happy, right? :) If both of you love each other, no one will be unfair. :)

But what if you really love the person and you finally found out that he doesn’t love you and you know that there are people waiting for you and are willing to give you everything and they already started doing it a long time ago? WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE? Someone asked me this question before and it was really easy for me to answer that I will choose the person who loves me but now that I’m really experiencing it, it’s really hard and at the same time it hurts a lot! ~ But you know what?.. I chose the person I love ‘cause I won’t be able to take the pain seeing him happy with another woman. I JUST TOLD MYSELF that at the end he’ll be the one who will keep on longing for my love OR when I’m gone he’ll realize that no other woman is better to love him just like I did and upon searching for another woman, he’ll also realize how great I am. He might also know that there are lots of guys out there that my family and friends are telling me that they are a lot more better than him but still I chose him.

But still, I can’t blame him if he doesn’t really love me. I’m just happy that I can only live once and I felt God’s love and I was able to let someone feel it too. The only problem is that WHY MOST OF US still need to experience the same mistakes others did before really learning from it. 

True love waits, listens, and gives everything he/she could just to make that ONE person HAPPY, you might suffer and sacrifice big things BUT if he/she loves you back, he/she will also do the same thing just to make you happy. And of course, we should never forget God to be the center of our relationship. ♥~